LAST NIGHT I DRUNK TOO MUCH?

HOW CAN I PACE MYSELF TO DRINK ONLY ENOUGH TO GET ME A BUZZ...SEE LAST NIGHT I WAS DRINKING ON STRAWBERRY SMIRNOFF AT HOME WITH MY MAN..I DIDNT REALIZE I HAD DRUNK TOO MUCH THAT BASICALLY THE WHOLE NIGHT WAS MESSED UP AND HECTIC...WE ARGUED BASICALLY ALL NIGHT..IT WAS SO EMBARRASSING..HOW CAN I CONTROL MY LIQUOR OR BETTER YET HOW CAN I LET MYSELF KNOW I HAVE HAD ENOUGH...I DONT WANT TO ACT CRAZY WHEN I DRINK I WANNA RELAX AND ENJOY MY NIGHT...ME AND MY MAN WE BETTER NOW GOT EVERYTHING RESOLVED THIS MORNING BEFORE HE WENT TO WORK AND HE TOLD ME LETS TRY IT AGAIN TONIGHT AND SEE IF I CAN CONTROL MY ALCOHOL...ANY SUGGESTIONS?